Update 7/27

Not much to say, really. Other than we are very frustrated.

As I said yesterday, I am cleared to go home. The home nursing was approved by insurance and was the last hurdle to jump. Problem is, we cannot find a home nursing service that will come to the house once a day a to, essentially, look at a dressing.

Social services is working with my doctor to see if he will change the order. In the meantime Lisa and I did some research and there are several outpatient wound care facilities in St. Petersburg that should be able to do the appropriate maintenance on me going forward.

I am not optimistic that this will be resolved tomorrow, but…Maybe Monday?

I am very sick of maybe.

Update 7/26

It has been a roller coaster of a day.

I am, essentially, discharged from the hospital. I have the equipment I need to take home with me, my IV meds have been switched to oral, and my insurance company has approved the home nurse to tend to my wound vac.

But that is where the road block occurred. The nurse will have to visit within 48 hours of my return home. Lisa has been working with the social workers to find a service that can accommodate that, but so far nobody can. So until they do? I am here.

While the social workers do work over the weekend, I cannot help but feel as though they are not going to find anyone before Monday.

To say I am bummed out would be an understatement.

Still, home is a matter of days at this point instead of weeks, so I can manage through a few more.

Update 7/25

“I want to get you out of here on Saturday.”

A quote from my doctor this afternoon. I think he is being optimistic but we shall see. We are still waiting for the home health care items to be approved but realistically I can go home without most of them and let them sort out the orders next week.

Had a final CT scan today and all the fluid collections in my abdomen are gone. I still have extreme edema which should start to go away when I can exercise more (getting walks in here has been a challenge).

I still have a lot of recovery to do but if all goes well I can start doing that at home very, very soon.

Update 7/24

Insurance continues to be a road block. After the peer-to-peer meeting they had yesterday my team is not convinced that they will approve the acute rehab. Lisa filed a personal appeal this morning but it seems highly unlikely I will be going to the rehab center.

So my team has started the process of getting me home, where I will have to go to outpatient therapy and have a home nurse come visit to help with IV meds (if they send them home with me) and the wound vacuum.

Best case scenario a decision will be made one way or another by Friday and I will be coming home before the weekend. If it doesn’t, I will almost certainly be here through the weekend.

They are finally moving me off of the ICU and to a private room on the medical floor. I will have more freedom of mobility there (in the ICU you have to stay connected to monitors 24/7), and will hopefully be able to sleep better.

I am frustrated, but thankful that I should be out of here in some fashion in the next week.

Update 7/23

Movement again today, but I am still in the hospital. The next step in the appeal process to my insurance company has been completed (a peer-to-peer review between one of my doctors and one on the insurance side) and now we are waiting on a final decision.

I have been working with the physical therapy team here to improve things as I can, but I would be making much better progress if I were in rehab.

Beyond that? They took the last two drains out this morning. The only thing I have left attached to me is a wound vacuum, which I am probably going to go home with regardless of when I get there. I am on IV antibiotics still warding off the last of this infection, and the edema I have had seems to be largely under control.

I still have a lot of recovery left to do, but I am getting there.

Update 7/22

As expected, nothing at all happened over the weekend. My discharge to acute rehab is currently stuck in bureaucratic limbo, and Lisa is working very hard to coordinate and push people to get things moving. Meanwhile I am doing my best to do what exercises I can while confined to a chair and keep myself occupied.

Hopefully we have some solid movement and timelines by the end of the day on what my next steps are going to be. Until then, I continue to appreciate your support.

Update 7/19

Hi friends and family. This one is actually coming from me for a change. I am feeling well enough that I am going to be making updates for the foreseeable future. And on that note…I am probably not going to post every day, because where things stand right now is pretty much the same thing on repeat.

I am still in the ICU while they continue to drain excess fluids from my abdomen. I am well taken care of and getting more and more strength back daily. The process of transferring me to acute rehab has started and is in the insurance approval stage. Maybe that happens over the weekend, but I have my doubts.

So, yeah. Unless there is a significant update I probably won’t post much here in the upcoming future.

Thank you all so much for your messages and support. Lisa kept me in the loop on all of them when holding my phone was too much effort and it means the world to me. I look forward to seeing you all soon.

Update: 7/18

As the rehab move paperwork and insurance stuff gets done behind the scenes, Michael spent another day walking around the unit and resting in between. The doctors are using the extra time to stay on top of his infection so they tried a new type of drain in his incision today to see if it helps. Like the other drains he has, this one can also be managed while he’s in rehab so it won’t interfere with his move over there when they’re ready for him. 

Michael is beginning to really look forward to rehab. He says he will appreciate the opportunity to regain strength in an environment that allows him to push himself safely under the watchful eyes of experts. ❤️

Update: 7/17

Michael is still waiting for the logistics to be finalized that will allow him to move to rehab but we’ve been told we should have more information on that tomorrow. In the meantime, Michael is still in a holding pattern in ICU. It was a quiet day, which gave him a chance to catch up on a little more sleep. ❤️